You are about to get to know me really well guys.
The anxiety I deal with is a bit different now. After Parker was born it turned into more of this constant worry. Like CONSTANT… to where I get this overwhelming fear that something bad is going to happen way too often. Like, maybe we shouldn’t go on that trip… WHAT IF? What if THIS happened, what if THAT happened… and then I start going through the motions like it is real life and visualizing the worst case scenario always. Of course I still have my hypochondriac moments too, but I feel like I am a little more realistic about them. I’m better at helping myself not overthink it these days.
This all might sound crazy to some of you, and to others, you might know exactly what I’m talking about. I’ve realized that anxiety comes in all shapes and sizes. I don’t know everything there is about anxiety, but I will tell you that there are some things I have done that have really helped me manage everything. Although anxiety definitely influences my wellbeing, I still do almost everything I want to do. It isn’t debilitating for me like it has been in the past. I don’t take prescription medication and I don’t go to a psychologist any longer (I’ve done both and would highly suggest that you start with a mental health professional or with a naturopath like I mention below). In fact, I don’t even think most people I know, know that I struggle with this. Ultimately, I’ve just found that for my own journey, what I do on a daily basis has helped immensely and hopefully you might find some of these simple things helpful too.
Here are my top tips to help with anxiety:
1. Eat well: Feed your body the right foods to help support your mood. Less processed foods, less sugar, less alcohol, less coffee and more healthy fats, superfoods and warm foods. This is hands down, the most important tip.
2. Exercise: I actually turn to exercise if I’m feeling really anxious. It gets your mind off of “your mind” and onto something else. Cardio, weight training, yoga, whatever it is. I can say, I’ve never felt worse after exercising. ; )
3. See a Naturopath: I whole heartedly believe in the care given to each person by an ND. I also believe in the power of natural medicine and the referrals one can give you to therapists and other providers.
4. Acupuncture: Getting this twice a month has done wonders for my anxiety. It also keeps my whole body feeling healthy. Just make sure you find a good one! I’ve seen a few mediocre acupuncturists.
5. Do more: Contrary to what you most likely want to do, following through with the things that make you anxious really helps. It isn’t easy getting yourself to do it, but when you realize you can do things that you are fearful of, your fear of doing it subsides. Hence, the camping in the middle of nowhere photo above… looks great, was great, but wasn’t easy for me.
6. EFT: This is a technique that completely changed my life. It takes a minute to not feel silly while doing it, but I owe so much of my healing to this!
7. Supplement: There are some great supplements out there that help ease anxiety and/or are important for your mental health. L-theanine, B vitamins, probiotics, fish oil, and magnesium are some of my favorites. Talk to a Naturopath or a health professional about a supplementation plan.
8. Have a supportive partner, friend or family member: My husband has been such an integral part in helping me manage my anxiety. He listens when I just want to tell him what’s going on in my head, never judges, but always encourages me to recognize that much of what is going on in my mind is anxiety. He constantly urges me to push through my fears, which is exactly what I need. If you don’t have someone that can help tell you “you are ok” I’d highly recommend reaching out to your partner, friend or family member to ask them to be that person for you.
9. Get educated: I would strongly suggest reading books about mindfulness. A couple of my favorites are The Power of Now and Spontaneous Happiness. There is also a class currently on Mind Body Green —> click here.
10. Unplug: Spending too much time on social media, watching or reading the news and browsing the internet can really fuel anxiety. Do yourself a favor and take a break from the things that don’t serve you.
Most importantly, don’t be afraid to get help. In fact, I highly suggest you don’t try and figure it all out on your own. There was a point in my life where I had to take prescription medication just to calm me the heck down. And that was what I needed at that point in my life. Be okay with accepting the things you need to get you to a better place.
I’ll be sharing more tips (like aromatherapy, my favorite peaceful feeling tea and more soon). As always, I love hearing other peoples stories. If you’ve experienced something similar or have any great tips, now that my comment box is finally working, comment or email me!
XO